Sexual Assault

A word about terminology: Rape or sexual assault? In recent literature (and due to changes in the law) the words sexual assault are used as a broader term that encompasses rape. Sexual Assault is any form of non-consensual sexual activity. Rape is a term that describes forced sexual intercourse only.

Stranger Sexual Assault
This is the sexual assault of a person by someone who the victim does not know. It is important to note that sexual assaults are usually committed by people known to the victim. In fact, 78% of sexual assaults are committed by men the victims knew prior to the assault. Strangers commit only 22% of sexual assaults. Still, stranger sexual assaults do occur and it is important that women be aware of their surroundings and the people around them and learn to trust their instincts.

Acquaintance Sexual Assault
This is the sexual assault of a person by someone known to the victim, but not a romantic interest. Acquaintance sexual assault can be committed by anyone: a boss, friend, co-worker, teacher, neighbour, plumber... In acquaintance sexual assault the attacker often uses verbal threats, coercion, and strength to overpower their victims. It is more difficult for a woman to recognize danger in a man she knows than in a stranger. Women feel safe with men they know; they are not on guard or prepared to fight back.

Date Sexual Assault
This is the sexual assault of a person by someone known to the victim, and seen as a romantic interest. In this form of sexual assault, both parties initially choose to be together. There may be sexual expectations, however at some point during the "date", coercion is used in response to the woman’s resistance or refusal to engage in sexual activity. He may pressure, threaten, or physically force her into sexual activity.
Date sexual assault is common because men are taught to think of sex as a game of conquest. Points are given for the more times they "score.". Men may believe that when a woman says "no" she is playing a game; she really means, "yes" but wants to be convinced. Date rape may also occur because the aggressor believes in "justifiable rape"; that if a woman acts, dresses, or says particular things the man is justified in raping her. But no one deserves to be raped. Regardless of how turned on, frustrated or angry the person is, he is responsible for controlling his actions.

Relationship Sexual Assault
This is the sexual assault of a person by a partner in a long-term romantic relationship. This form of sexual assault is often connected with other forms of abuse. Physical, emotional, and sexual abuse may also be present in the relationship.

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